The mission is to help you UNDERSTAND how you are uniquely DESIGNED to think, feel, act and react which will ultimately set you up for a life of HIGH SELF-ESTEEM and success, PREVENT mental and emotional breakdowns, REVERSE damaging effects of your life experiences, and for you to ENJOY the rest of your LIFE.
HOW? By awakening you BACK unto yourself!
Do You Know WHO You Are?
When you know who you are and live FROM your DESIGN then your LIFE will be one of ease even when it's not easy.
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Welcome to Your LIFE as intended!
HERE ARE 3 MORE AUDIO LESSONS
Disfunction is the Default
After watching the video above this concept should be easy to grasp: most people don’t know their nature (temperament) but due to external expectations from family, institutions and society-forced conformity they are very familiar with their output (personality).
This process of grooming places high value on external things like approval from people and validation from institutions, and their barometer for success conditions us to chase money, stuff, titles, roles and when life gets tough -- to accept labels --to which all of these produce in every person what I call the “3 Hindering I’s”: (feelings of) inadequacy, insecurity and inferiority -- the byproduct-- individual malfunction. Then when you (the personality) interacts with another (personality) who, too, has malfunctioned, dysfunction is inevitable and therefore, the default.
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Self-Awareness Is Good,
But Individuality Awareness is Best.
Anytime I start talking about living by design and individuality awareness as the path to peace I get this question, “Yes, but HOW do I do that?” or “How do I know what that is?” And the other is a response from those who have started on a personal growth path just enough to see all of the flaws of others -- with psychological diagnoses, labels and all -- and then they regurgitate all they’ve learned and use that to declare how self-aware they now are. You know that by how many people readily accept labels along with how many are now called "narcissists". Well, the way most people become self-aware is from experiencing other people and without real emotional growth and transformation blaming is the default. Even "narcissists" behavior can be explained and controlled through individuality awareness. But HEY, at least those regurgitators are on a personal growth path right? The problem with just self-awareness at all levels and merely speculating about others is that you’re still limited to what you THINK you know about others and only having surface understanding of yourself, which is fine if you live on an island, ALONE. But since you don’t...
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Keeping Up With the Speed of Change
THIS is the game of life: And like any game there is a framework for how you play it and you have to understand it, and it’s penalties if you want to play it well and you cannot neglect personal growth. The stakes are too high and you have everything to lose from family connections, to losing your mind and fortunes. If you care about any of these things then THIS is where you START because we’ve all been dealt a hand in life. The question is; what level of efficiency are you currently playing at? You know that by how you feel -- by your level of internal peace, and by the quality of your relationships, and by how eager you are to face tomorrow. You know it by how you handle life -- it’s challenges and it’s changes. Are you comfortable in your own skin and with decisions you make and how they pan out or are you constantly questioning yourself, and your choices. Here are other ways to gauge it:
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Work With Zara
There are 3 ways to work with me:
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Whatever is causing you pain right now or keeping you stuck, BRING IT!
This journey is a life-changer and you will transform. There’s stuff to learn about yourself, human nature, Universal principles, and I’m here guiding you through it all. For a limited time, 1-on-1 sessions are STRICTLY FOR those in my LIFE course, which means that I am currently working with every person 1-on-1.
We will close your personal growth gaps, get your mind right and you’ll be on your way to living your best life with the tools you’ll need for continual personal growth for the rest of your life.
At this time, 1-on-1 sessions are currently only being scheduled for LIFE Course members and those I've already worked with in the past. For the greatest impact I am currently fully devoted to those who are laying the "LIFE" foundation for their own individualized personal transformations and growth.
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Remote working is not a fad, it's our new world and many remote workers are struggling through COVID mandates; their worlds have compounded with no help on integrating the changes. I can help you, help your employees. They can be enrolled in my LIFE Course too, and they will thank you for it.
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Information is good, properly applied information is better but best, by far, is getting the right information that is individualized with guidance by a specialist who supports you through much needed transformations.
At the end of the 8-weeks, you will have dropped weights you forgot you picked up but feel nonetheless, released life-long burdens that were never yours anyway and best of all have the clarity you need to move forward empowered to live the life you desire and deserve.
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After several career paths, courses and certifications completed while living and working from coast to coast, I'm now focused on doing the things I'm naturally designed for and what brings me the most joy: teaching adults and supporting them to identify and fill in personal growth gaps. It's not just about helping people feel good. It’s about expanding their awareness, and helping them get unstuck, make better relationship decisions and to get onto their own personal development path. I do that through my LIFE Course so that they too can live according to their individual designs, have consistent confidence, and develop the skills to enjoy the rest of their lives no matter their current circumstances.
After a short career as a news reporter and then years of working corporate leadership roles, my introduction to corporate training was with SkillPath International Training Corp. -- in a different city everyday -- teaching 5 courses a day including communications, leadership and interpersonal skills. I was hooked. I’ve worked with major corporations and taught thousands of people in small groups and large crowds. I’m still called on today by Corporate America because of my developed expertise with temperaments and mindset management as it relates to change -- Adaptability Quotient in our changing world is a real game changer
Certified as a Heal Your Life workshop leader based on the philosophy of Louise Hay and a student of many of personal growth greats, I am best known for helping others to understand individual temperaments as a key factor of healthy productive life management.
I was a student of “new age” leaders like Wayne Dyer, Abraham (Esther and Jerry Hicks), Tony Robbins, Byron Katie, Mike Dooley, Gary Zukof, Eckhart Tolle, Michael Beckwith, and “old school” Neville Goddard and Florence Scovel Schinn and many others long before they became en vogue through the likes of Oprah's Super Soul Sunday.
I am a certified Christian minister. My current spiritual beliefs and practices incorporates many things and it is my all-inclusive expanded spirituality that makes it possible to successfully work with anybody regardless of their spiritual practices. I am the creator of the Grown Zone, a relationship education platform. Also known for my popular Grown Is Sexy! ™ and PooNannie Principles™ messages and teachings focusing on healthy relationship choices founded on self-love, respect for others, and taking personal responsibility for securing both.
I’m a 3-time author of personal growth and healthy relationships publications.
I believe that life is meant to be enjoyed. I enjoy teaching, connecting, the arts, dogs and traveling.
Social Media Distribution
TikTok: It’s my favorite! WARNING: I do the MOST over there! Now you know. I also do impromptu live streams so follow me there. (It's the only "link" symbol on the social media bar).
Facebook: Starting in 2021 a new video every week.
Instagram: More focus on stories than daily posts moving forward but still lots to learn already posted there.
Twitter: It was my favorite once upon a time but admittedly I'm not over there as much as on other platforms except to talk with folks during OWN NETWORK's Iyanla Fix My Life.
YouTube: Certainly more videos for 2021 so go subscribe. AND I'm excited about the possibility (we'll see) of a teaching and Q & A membership currently being discussed. Join the list below to be notified.
Email: I do not do regularly scheduled emails. It's why I've listed where you can get a regular dose of my teachings through the social media channels above. Although I do want you to know when I'm doing special cool things and only those on my email list will know. Join it below